Dear Prudence

"Dear Prudence" was written by John in India for Prudence Farrow (sister of Mia Farrow), who was meditating so intensely she wouldn't come outside to experience the beauty around her. The song gently coaxes her to rejoin the world, to look around and engage with life.

Even worthy pursuits can become traps if they separate you from living. Meditation, therapy, or any self-improvement practice should enhance your relationship with the world, not replace it. The invitation in "Dear Prudence" is irresistible: come outside and see what you're missing.

Avoiding life by calling it spirituality is a trap. Prudence wasn't neglecting meditation; she was using it to escape. John recognized the difference between genuine practice and sophisticated avoidance. The song reminds us that true growth pulls us toward life, not away from it.

Real wisdom engages the world rather than withdrawing from it. While retreat has value, staying locked away to avoid reality defeats the purpose of any practice meant to help you live better. Balance requires knowing when to turn inward and when to turn outward.

Today, I will examine one practice that might have become an excuse for avoiding rather than enhancing my engagement with life.

What worthy activity have you been using to hide from challenges you need to face? How might your spiritual or self-improvement practices be creating distance from the very life they're meant to enrich?