Put It There

Genuine connection often begins with the simplest gestures. Paul's 1989 song "Put It There" celebrates extending friendship through a handshake, a smile, or any small act that says "I'm open to knowing you." The track's gentle melody and straightforward lyrics emphasize that meaningful relationships often start with someone taking the first step toward openness.

Recognizing our common humanity breaks down most social barriers. Paul believed that complexity and overthinking prevent the simple connections we most need. Whether in business networking or personal relationships, many barriers exist only in our minds, dissolved the moment someone offers genuine warmth and interest in connection.

Approach others with curiosity rather than judgment, and watch how quickly walls come down. The song suggests that most people want connection but wait for others to make the first move. When we extend friendship without agenda or expectation, we create space for relationships to develop naturally.

Connection requires courage because reaching out involves risk of rejection or misunderstanding. Paul understood that the reward of genuine human connection far outweighs the temporary discomfort of vulnerability. Most people respond positively to sincere attempts at friendship, especially in our increasingly isolated world.

Everyone benefits when someone takes the first step toward openness and understanding. Whether it's introducing yourself to a neighbor, starting a conversation with a colleague, or simply making eye contact and smiling at a stranger, small gestures of friendliness create ripple effects that build stronger communities.

Today, I will extend a simple gesture of friendship to someone I don't know well, trusting that openness creates opportunities for meaningful connection.

What relationship in your life might benefit from you making the first move toward deeper connection? How could a simple gesture of openness change the dynamic between you and someone else?