THE WISDOM OF THE BEATLES
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That's the Way it Goes
Peace comes from knowing what you can't control
December 19
Listening to George’s 1982 track “That’s the Way It Goes”, reminds us not to be overwhelmed by the stresses of daily life. After decades of fame, fortune, and the complications both bring, George had reached a place of quiet contentment. The song's breezy melody matches its philosophical message: some things you can influence, most things you cannot, and wisdom lies in knowing the difference.
Acceptance doesn't mean approval or passivity. George still engaged with causes he cared about, from music to gardening to humanitarian work. But he'd learned to release the exhausting need to control outcomes beyond his influence. Political systems would function or fail regardless of his worry. People would make their own choices. Markets would fluctuate. Trying to control the uncontrollable only creates suffering without changing results.
Not obsessing over daily worries is easier said than done. George reminds us that trying to control things completely beyond our power can exhaust our energy for things we can influence: our responses, our daily choices, our immediate sphere of impact. George's song invites us to redirect that misplaced energy.
Distinguishing what we can change from what we must accept is an important life skill, but actually practicing this requires awareness and intention. George's lived experience taught him that peace comes from knowing where your power actually lies and focusing there.
Today, I will identify one situation I've been trying to control that's actually beyond my influence, and practice acceptance while redirecting my energy toward what I can actually affect.
What are you exhausting yourself trying to control that's actually beyond your power? How might accepting "that's the way it goes" free energy for areas where you do have influence?
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